Should christians use online dating
Most are well intended and contain a nugget of truth. Dating is hard enough without sifting through all this erroneous information, so let's debunk some myths.
There are plenty of them, but let's focus on what I believe are the top five myths that make dating harder for Christian men.
In summary, a single Ghanaian Christian should view the use of online dating platform as another avenue (just like church, a wedding, workplace, shopping, etc) to find a partner.
But before beginning online dating site, it is important to commit such engagement into God’s hands and believe He will direct the finding of a like-minded spouse online.
The most important question a single Christian needs to ask is, are they mature enough to be an admirable spouse?
There are some myths out there that people assume to be gospel about dating.
According to the Holy Bible, God perfectly loves every one (Ephesians ; 1 John -18) and perfectly controls every situation on earth (Psalm 1; Romans -39).
For this reason, every Christian can be sure that God will most likely bring the right man or woman into their path, eventually at a certain point in time.
Nowhere, however, does it say that God picked out a spunky brunette whom he's waiting to spring on you at the right moment. When it comes to God, I'm pretty careful about saying what he does or doesn't do.
The Holy Bible does not make any direct or indirect reference to dating services.
In actual fact, the Bible does not indicate the process Christians should use in searching for potential soul partners, or whichever method Christians should during dating or courtship.
For instance, assuming a 30-year-old single Christian has most of his/her friends already married, it can be difficult to meet another single Christian Ghanaian man and woman.
In this case, the single Christian will be left with the option of looking for a partner in church, through friends, family, workplace or at an event.This may be the biggest excuse men use for being lazy in relationships, much less finding one.